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Quinceañeras (My 15th Birthday). Rooted in history. The Hispanic population in the U.S has kept alive different traditions from their countries of origin. One such tradition is the celebration of their daughters' 15th birthday.
These celebrations come from the ancient native peoples who dedicated their youngsters to the gods, either as warriors or maidens in the temples. The ceremonies had deep religious significance; the people acknowledged that everything came from the gods, and youngsters reflected on their talents and purpose in life.
After the conquest, the ancient traditions began to be discarded. Centuries later, the Europeans introduced the tradition of presenting a young lady into society. Military service was the counterpart rite of passage for a boy of similar age. Nineteenth century society allowed young men and women some time for parties and mutual enjoyment, dancing to waltzes and polkas and other music of the period. Women were extremely sheltered; they were not expected to study or mature in any way other than through an early marriage. In fact the celebration of their 15th birthday was a statement of their availability for marriage. Other fashionable elements were added to the celebration, but it is not known at what time the Mass became a part of it.
Logically, we cannot continue a tradition based on outdated customs. The community's recognition of a young lady does not mean that she is ready to have a boyfriend or to get married. Furthermore, this celebration is not a sacrament. The Quinceanera Mass is an act of thanksgiving for life; it commemorates our Baptism, which overcomes all cultural barriers, allowing us to celebrate our common heritage as children of God. (1 Cor 12:12-13)